There’s a tradeoff, Lemmy could be a great place to post because it’s low volume and your stuff will get seen for sure. Reddit subs like /r/gonewild have so much volume you’re essentially gambling that your content will even make anyone’s feed outside of /new, but that makes you less memorable if you do show up too.

Unfortunately I think Lemmy is not going to generate good leads.

A lot of the users here seem anti-capitalism/money/payment in any way and can be militantly so.

I’m here for the privacy, but I think people like me would be hard pressed to enter their credit card info on a porn site.