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    327 months ago

    I learned to combat this with 3 simple questions:

    1. What kind of job do you do? (Or study)
    2. Where do you live?
    3. Do you have any kids, dog,…

    Be interrested in their answers and add some simple follow-up questions that show you are listening. Add some content of your own as a follow-up.

    Posing that first question can be a bit weird, but the rest is as simple as it sounds.

    • Fuck spez
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      137 months ago

      Be interested in their answers

      Yeah, so, that’s where I usually drop the ball. What if I’m just… not?

        • Fuck spez
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          97 months ago

          What if, completely hypothetically of course, I’m pushing 40 and only moderately depressed but still prefer the company of my dogs to most people?