Some people find rimming perverse, even humiliating for the active part. I think the topic alone fits into the communities as a facet in many places. And I think that’s normal. Taking BDSM as an example, it’s not the power imbalance between top and bottom that dominates the sessions. It is the basis for many play instincts and living out the fetishes that are so beloved. Rimming is one of those fetishes for me. I like the feeling, I like her look. I like how she spoils me in this situation, is there for my lust. Completely voluntarily, she could do something else, sure. But she does, and it feels so good. Let’s enjoy her sight, her posture, her strength, her eye, the situation. Source