Hello, and welcome to our little community for discussing anything BDSM.

Wondering why bondage feels good? Or how to introduce spanking to a partner? Maybe you want tips on how to become better at mental dominance? Maybe you’re wondering what are common house rules for sexy hungry hippos?

Any and all questions, discussions and musings are welcome.

To start us off, why don’t you write a little something about what you’re into, how long you’ve been at it, and maybe how you first discovered it?

I’m excited to seeing you in the community!

  • NeekaOPMEnglish
    5•1 year ago

    Hello everyone!

    I’m Neeka, and I’ve been into kink for a couple decades now, starting even before I had genital sex. I got very into rope, and liked the feel of it in my hands, and then quickly discovered the excitement of putting it on other people and the delicious mind games that happen when you do.

    After that, it’s been one heckuva journey, discovering and trying so many different things to enjoy in different settings. I still do a lot of rope, mental play, 24/7 power dynamics and training, besides fetishising learning and geeking out about kink and positive sexuality!

    Happy to be here, and I’m very much looking forward to many good discussions and topics here!

    • b9999998English
      2•1 year ago

      Hi Neeka, Glad to see you here on LemmyNSFW, and 👍 for starting this comm.

      I mod [email protected] which obviously has all the BDSM themes and kinks - so my interest in this area has been over decades too. As well as recently picking up [email protected], along with starting up several other related ones like [email protected].

      My interests for the past 4+ years has been switched over to the femdom side, and I’ve various communities on that I’ve carried over from Reddit in that area.

      Perhaps you might be interested in helping mod some of the comms i have too, given your experience and long term involvement?

      • NeekaOPMEnglish
        2•1 year ago

        I’d be happy to help.

        Shall we continue the discussion on Matrix?

        • b9999998English
          3•1 year ago

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  • @AnaisRimMEnglish
    2•1 year ago

    Wonderful, thank you for creating this space!