I do think it’s important to try to respectfully explain why what somebody is saying is an issue but only when you have the energy.
I know from some people I’ve spoken with that they have no idea about the consequences of some things they (used to) agree with. If I had just called them Nazis they would have just felt disrespected and probably not thought about why people might call them that.
Also because of the audience. This has probably the overall bigger impact on opinions than wether you can change that one person’s mind. So even if you’re sure that guy is lost, providing better alternatives is still worthwhile.
There is some merit to this point. People are emotional creatures first, and sometimes exclusively. It often doesn’t matter if you’re right if the other people feels bad about it.
This is a really immature, unsophisticated, way to engage with the world, but it’s the reality for a lot of people. Honestly, it happens to all of us sometimes. Some people seem to rarely rise above the gutfeel level, though.
It does kind of suck that we have to cater to the most simplistic ways of engaging with the world, because if we don’t they’ll form a far right party and do some genoide.
I do think it’s important to try to respectfully explain why what somebody is saying is an issue but only when you have the energy.
I know from some people I’ve spoken with that they have no idea about the consequences of some things they (used to) agree with. If I had just called them Nazis they would have just felt disrespected and probably not thought about why people might call them that.
Thank you for this, because I don’t have more than to post fuck Nazis
Also because of the audience. This has probably the overall bigger impact on opinions than wether you can change that one person’s mind. So even if you’re sure that guy is lost, providing better alternatives is still worthwhile.
Them feeling disrespected is correct, though.
There is some merit to this point. People are emotional creatures first, and sometimes exclusively. It often doesn’t matter if you’re right if the other people feels bad about it.
This is a really immature, unsophisticated, way to engage with the world, but it’s the reality for a lot of people. Honestly, it happens to all of us sometimes. Some people seem to rarely rise above the gutfeel level, though.
It does kind of suck that we have to cater to the most simplistic ways of engaging with the world, because if we don’t they’ll form a far right party and do some genoide.