Despite what the internet would lead you to believe, body type is not directly correlated to being dominant or submissive. Neither does gender, sexual orientation, clothing or anything else on the surface. The type of person you are sexually, your preferences, your kinks, are only going to come out when you sit down and talk to your partner - or viewers - about it. Otherwise, its just folks making assumptions - and generally forcing standard hetero-normative gender roles into non-standard relationships or people. A big, bulky, tough guy can easily be submissive in bed, just as a soft-spoken, short man can be a cold dom. And the idea of a bottom dom would make some dude’s brains explode. At the end, its about personality, not looks.
So the answer is, unfortunately, this isn’t something that can be “fixed” because its not a personal problem. Its just people having an uneducated perspective of how sexual relations work.
Despite what the internet would lead you to believe, body type is not directly correlated to being dominant or submissive. Neither does gender, sexual orientation, clothing or anything else on the surface. The type of person you are sexually, your preferences, your kinks, are only going to come out when you sit down and talk to your partner - or viewers - about it. Otherwise, its just folks making assumptions - and generally forcing standard hetero-normative gender roles into non-standard relationships or people. A big, bulky, tough guy can easily be submissive in bed, just as a soft-spoken, short man can be a cold dom. And the idea of a bottom dom would make some dude’s brains explode. At the end, its about personality, not looks.
So the answer is, unfortunately, this isn’t something that can be “fixed” because its not a personal problem. Its just people having an uneducated perspective of how sexual relations work.