I’m totally happy with it. Have you done any play with sounds? If not, it might be good to start with some sounding to get used to the thought of inserting something into your urethral. It can seem scary at first, but with minimal care, it’s pretty safe. Inserting/removing is a breeze once you do it a handful of times and get used to the sensation. I initially wore it for over a day or two, but find that it’s just easier to remove it when I’m not playing with it.