I am not asking about switches, I’m asking about people who identify with a submissive role rather than a dominant role.
I can understand intuitively why a dominant could feel vulnerable or violated in a submissive role and be uncomfortable in it, but I can only guess how a submissive would feel with roles swapped. And I’m sure these all can change wildly based on each person and their personality.
(This is a slower community, so doms talking about subbing are welcome too, although I’m more curious about the scenario in the title)
not much but there were a few instances where someone tried leading me into dommimg them and it felt- strange. i could mimic what i know doms do, and try to make them feel nice, but none of that came naturally to me, and by the end i was exhausted, glad it was over, and definitely not horny
there was certainly discomfort to it, but mostly from the part that i guess the person assumed i was a switch (i do like teasing my fellow subs) and before i realised what was happening - they acted really subby in front of me and had me trying to dom them. i took the chance because i did want to try and see how it felt, but the lack of negotiation & assumption i’ve consented to that rubbed me the wrong way
i like kink because i get to let go of control, doing the opposite felt rather unintuitive