• JRaccoon
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    212 hours ago

    Assertive dom. When they make me feel I really don’t have any other options than to submit.

    I’m a switch and brat and subbing doesn’t always come naturally for me. In the beginning of a scene I have a tendency to start ‘topping from the bottom’, even if I consciously try to avoid it, and the dom can’t let that happen. Once I manage to let go, I do absolutely enjoy it and can enter a deep subspace, but I can’t do it without the dom really pushing and “breaking” me first. It’s kinda hard to explain and I don’t even fully understand it myself but at least I know some other top-leaning switches I’ve talked to have had similar experiences.