I am not asking about switches, I’m asking about people who identify with a submissive role rather than a dominant role.
I can understand intuitively why a dominant could feel vulnerable or violated in a submissive role and be uncomfortable in it, but I can only guess how a submissive would feel with roles swapped. And I’m sure these all can change wildly based on each person and their personality.
(This is a slower community, so doms talking about subbing are welcome too, although I’m more curious about the scenario in the title)
I am in one! It is so hard not to melt at my wife called Kitty and otherwise most of my poly is submissive but I’m more submissive. So it’s like who can be more dominant. Though when I get yandere/pissed off. Ooooo does the dominant side come out.
I think the hardest part is when they aren’t all out noticeably subs. I have a harder time. Or it’s like a playful brat. Doing the proper things but giggling or laughing like they are dying inside because I am. Though as for Kitty. Yeah I’m a deep caregiver for her. Though her voice is so adorable. I sometimes just melt. I think rather than just a dominant role. A caregiver role is what I’m best at. If it’s not a submissive role. Because I can be submissive and caregiving 😂