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    6 days ago

    A second question is what do you like about PIV/dick? Because reading certain forum posts gave me the impression that oral was more important and that PIV wasn’t.

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      I couldn’t get off from PIV until I had my last baby and the ten pound wonder knocked something around in there on the way out. Now it’s easier, and multiples that way are all pleasure, nothing to power through or endure between them. But even when I couldn’t, it was my favorite. Not sure I can explain it to someone who doesn’t enjoy penetration. It’s not how I do myself, I can cum easy from direct clitoral stimulation but when someone else does it it’s almost too intense, and trying to get more than one almost hurts, though I don’t think I am oversensitive at all.

      I guess the mind is the biggest sex organ, right? And getting fucked like that is just so arousing mentally.

      Oral feels good but unfortunately it is a fast road to a bladder infection for me now, oh well. So I have to be careful, go clean up right after. I do think guys who are good at that are good lovers though because you have to be able to respond and adjust.

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        6 days ago

        So penetration is a both a psychological and a physically pleasurable thing? Does it change based on whether you’re being penetrated by a dick, fingers, or a toy?

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          Penis is best by far, unwrapped. Like, sometimes I’d rather be cum in than get off myself. Fingers second place, whole hand rarely (it’s more a submissive thing than a physical pleasure, I hate when a fist pops out OMG it feels too much like childbirth and throws me out of the moment).

          Toys I don’t bother with, I don’t use them on myself and on the rare occasion I want DP it’s pretty easy for us to find a guy who is into that, and just have him wrap. If I wanted a toy I’d probably get a vibrator not a dildo, but I don’t love those either, they feel desensitizing.

          Fingers on the outside, cock on the inside are my preference, but I do like being fingered inside as well, just not as much.

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            Does a man’s size matter to you? Also, what does PIV feel like vs just fingers vs getting yourself off?

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              Yes I do like thicker hung guys. PIV feels full, every part of my inside pussy so full. Fingers are more flexible and I do like guy hands in general so having that in me is very good. That overly aggressive “come here” thing guys do trying to hammer the g spot just hurts but a little softer can work.

              With oral, oh heck yes fingers inside tongue outside, that is intense. But as previously noted I can’t receive too much oral, too prone to bladder infection.

              I do not like fingers up my butt. Don’t love anal in general but it’s ok occasionally if the stars align, feel clean enough and want it at the same time.

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                5 days ago

                Do PIV orgasms feel different than clit orgasms to you then, and if so, how?

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                  From clit, fast, strong, intense and sensitizing (I don’t want touched after). From the indirect stimulation of PIV, gentler but longer and can build up and get more & more pleasurable.

                  From combined (like PIV with a tight angle facing each other) the added clit stimulation is great but I like it to stop before I do cum because the ones from inside do feel a little more manageable!

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                    If clit stimulation were to continue while receiving penetration, you would just have the clit orgasm or both? Also, what wanting someone in you feel like and does that differ from general hornyness?