You’re not being rude at all! If anything I’m probably the one being rude for trying to give so much unsolicited advice. I’m sorry to hear that there’s pain regardless. Discomfort (and even pain if you’re not careful) is to be expected with toys above a certain length due to the rectal bend, which could be part of it maybe?
![[oc] a video of my first time using a dildo](https://lemmynsfw.com/pictrs/image/8a0e2e43-934d-43f4-ad1e-d3ead30a9c06.webp){kind=link}
You’re not being rude at all! If anything I’m probably the one being rude for trying to give so much unsolicited advice. I’m sorry to hear that there’s pain regardless. Discomfort (and even pain if you’re not careful) is to be expected with toys above a certain length due to the rectal bend, which could be part of it maybe?
Maybe but a big part of the discomfort is from any movement