Okay you really want to know, then I’ll tell you. Has gay stuff so don’t read if you’re a prude. But if you’re a prude, why are you here?

I signed up on Scruff, and my phone has been BLOWING UP. I will skip the dozens of explicit chats, image swaps, custom videos, etc. and just tell you about this one:

• A sub bottom reached out to me around 4pm on Friday. I’m not really dom/sub, but it’s fun to mess with people, and I can give it a try. So I mention chastity and he is REALLY into the idea. He has to meet friends for dinner and hanging out at 7, so he comes to my place, and I put my chastity cage on him for the first time in his life.
• It’s his first time, so I use a cut-able travel lock and tell him what to watch out for in case it’s too tight or painful.
• The whole time he’s at dinner we have absolute FILTHY dom/sub texts back and forth about how it’s not his cock anymore, it’s my clit, etc. and every time he feels it, he feels my hand tightening around him, because it’s mine. My god he LOVES this. Periodically while at his friend’s apartment, he goes into the bathroom to take a video showing me his cage is still on and huffing poppers. HE BROUGHT A FUCKING BOTTLE OF POPPERS with him from his house to my place, to dinner, to his friend’s apartment.
• After dinner probably around 1am or so he wants to come back to my place to show off his cage but I know he wants more. He comes over, pulls down his pants, takes off his shirt, and shows me his whole body. He was leaking precum all over himself all evening and had made a huge mess in his pants.
• He then worships my body and my cock until finally he gets to swallow my cum. He did a good job. Once I’m finished, I open up his lock, and let him take care of himself, while I hold and kiss him in my lap. We clean up and he heads home by 2am.
• TODAY (Sunday) he came back to get locked up again. This time he has the key, and I taught him how to put on/remove the cage. That’s his responsibility now. I’m still not having sex with him, so he has another random hookup come and facefuck him. I told him not to tell his hookup about the cage in advance. The guy was so surprised but LOVED how much of a pig this sub bottom is. They both had a good time, and the sub bottom realized he really is so much more focused on pleasing the cock in his mouth rather than his own useless nub when he has it locked away. He’s going to make sure he likes it then probably buy his own. He can’t have mine. That things was expensive around $150.

So here’s the thing about all that, by the way. It’s fun for me to roleplay, but I’ve learned I’m really not part of this whole dom/sub dynamic. I can play the part, but for me it’s just play. These guys LIVE it.

Edit: why do you have a chastity cage? It makes it a lot easier for me to enjoy my dildos without immediately cumming myself from masturbation.

Edit 2: a shorter story from this week: a gay couple reached out to me to see if we have chemistry. They’re cute. The wild thing is the partner that reached out to me is BLIND and the audio of the video of me cumming turned him on so much he wanted to reach out. Isn’t that crazy?! (that video is posted here on Lemmy)