Since it’s so quiet here, why not a general question to get things started? How often do you have sex (however you define it) and how often would be your ideal? And any details you feel relevant.
We are mid-50s and the kids left at home are teens now so family responsibilities are eased (more free time) we average just over 1x/day, and my ideal is once or twice a day.
About to hit 30, anywhere from once a day to every couple of weeks. Depends on how stressed we are. I tend to have a higher libido so a touch more than we have now would be nice, but no complaints here.
I’ve found that if we have too much sex then I don’t enjoy it as much, but on the other hand there’s so much to do and try, and practice makes perfect