[Update] please note that this community is no longer restricted to Male chastity, and now is open to all. The prior narrow focus on males that was in the sidebar before was an oversight and has been removed.
Every submissive has an unique original story behind their consent, right?
I (and I’m very sure others too) am very interested in how you “discovered” chastity ( I’m sure it wasn’t taught as part of sex-ed classes 😉), why you want/agreed to be caged, what satisfaction (sexual or otherwise) you are getting, etc…
Please share your origin story, either by replying to this as comment, or starting up your own new thread. Free form, no judgements, just simply sharing.
The image in post is my collection of cages - my first one on the left was acquired a little over two years ago.
- front center, my current fave and only one I wear now if at all - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07K14VYPY
- right - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09Y32LSV3
- back right - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09MK29LNV
I’ll be glad to my own story in comments later if you are interested.
I’m thinking a corresponding thread for Tops and Doms/Dommes could work too…
Hi, glad to have you here. Welcome to LemmyNSFW.
So what’s your chastity story?
Got interested in butt stuffing, got involved in some online communities, they recommend abstaining from masturbating for a while before sessions to heighten the experience. I looked into getting a cage, was overwhelmed by the variety, and just decided making my own would be easier
am i understanding correctly that you are doing self-chastity for your play sessions?
Yep! Otherwise I’ll jack off and ruin it after like 15 minutes. Very unsatisfying, especially as even a quick rinse to play can take longer than that, and a deep clean takes around an hour for me and should be done hours in advance. A good butt session can be a few hours on the high end if I can control myself