• @[email protected]
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    69 months ago

    Lots of women are very dtf, but try to be cognizant of the fact that for us it’s also a safety issue. Better to spend a little bit of extra time getting to know someone before just cruising to a stranger’s house for cock worship. That kind of scenario can turn dangerous fast if you’re not careful. Cheers.

    • @dazedandconfused
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      39 months ago

      Thank you for your perspective! That’s something important to keep in mind.

      • Ahornygirl
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        39 months ago

        It really is always something we’re thinking about. Once when I was really young and naive, I was dumb enough to let a date drive me home. He went past the turn off for my house and didn’t say anything. I absolutely freaked out inside, convinced I was going to have something terrible happen to me. I hadn’t let anyone know where I was, or who I was with. I would have no chance of fighting back either, I’m not strong enough to fight off a guy who outweighs me by 50 lbs.

        Fortunately he was just really fucked up in a different way. He felt the need to introduce me to his parents… he didn’t feel the need to give me a heads up about that though.

        Ever since that day I always drive myself (or take a cab) and no one knows personal info like my phone number or address until I completely trust them.

        • @dazedandconfused
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          29 months ago

          Yeah that’s terrifying. If I were ever to go with anyone on a date by car, even as a guy, I wouldn’t get in their car, either!