It’s been interesting reading about your experiences these past few weeks and thanks for sharing! I’ve been amazed at the sheer number of reasonably positive encounters you seem to have had in such a short period of time. Just to be clear I don’t say that as a statement of judgement, but coming from the perspective of an introvert who if I meet one new person a month I’m exhausted!
Thanks so much! Guys are so horny and also comfortable hooking up, so even my shyness is trumped by horny energy :-)
In terms of mostly positive, I think Scruff is much better than Grindr for that purpose. I usually take time (days or more) chatting with guys before I’m going to meet. I also look for guys that have well written profiles and ideally have at least one pic with a genuine smile.
As a fellow penis-owner you don’t need to explain horny energy 😁
I get the impression that you’re around the City or maybe LI so you probably will have a lot better luck with any app in general than I ever would. One of the fun things about living rural is that your options are usually pretty limited.
A confession: as you’re (probably) bi I looked through your comment history to try and guess your sex. I only posted that line because I found myself totally unsure 🙂
And yes you’re right I’m on NY Metro so yeah options are amazing. Maybe too amazing. I might need to become more picky 😅
A reasonable and tactful approach as not everyone simply posts pictures of themselves to make things easy 😝. I will confirm for you that I am a bi man haha.
Have your fun while life lets you. Just be safe in the process!
It’s been interesting reading about your experiences these past few weeks and thanks for sharing! I’ve been amazed at the sheer number of reasonably positive encounters you seem to have had in such a short period of time. Just to be clear I don’t say that as a statement of judgement, but coming from the perspective of an introvert who if I meet one new person a month I’m exhausted!
Thanks so much! Guys are so horny and also comfortable hooking up, so even my shyness is trumped by horny energy :-)
In terms of mostly positive, I think Scruff is much better than Grindr for that purpose. I usually take time (days or more) chatting with guys before I’m going to meet. I also look for guys that have well written profiles and ideally have at least one pic with a genuine smile.
As a fellow penis-owner you don’t need to explain horny energy 😁
I get the impression that you’re around the City or maybe LI so you probably will have a lot better luck with any app in general than I ever would. One of the fun things about living rural is that your options are usually pretty limited.
A confession: as you’re (probably) bi I looked through your comment history to try and guess your sex. I only posted that line because I found myself totally unsure 🙂
And yes you’re right I’m on NY Metro so yeah options are amazing. Maybe too amazing. I might need to become more picky 😅
A reasonable and tactful approach as not everyone simply posts pictures of themselves to make things easy 😝. I will confirm for you that I am a bi man haha.
Have your fun while life lets you. Just be safe in the process!