It’s just realistic. It may sound “not hot” but that’s not the point of safe words, it’s to communicate either “everything is fine” or “everything is not fine, we need to pause or stop”. (Also you want something simple and easy to remember, like my favorite Red/Yellow/Green).
What’s hot about it is the trust that those words signify. That when you play with others, you share an understanding that they care more about your safety than the scene itself, that they will drop everything for you if something is wrong. And you would do the same. That’s hot.
“The safe word is ‘safe word’” is a pretty lame title for a sexy photo, unless you’re a lawyer. I’ll just scrap and redo.
It’s just realistic. It may sound “not hot” but that’s not the point of safe words, it’s to communicate either “everything is fine” or “everything is not fine, we need to pause or stop”. (Also you want something simple and easy to remember, like my favorite Red/Yellow/Green).
What’s hot about it is the trust that those words signify. That when you play with others, you share an understanding that they care more about your safety than the scene itself, that they will drop everything for you if something is wrong. And you would do the same. That’s hot.