Yes, especially when people start lecturing me that I’m wrong when they haven’t even made an effort to understand the issue at hand. All just to prove that I’m so wrong and they’re so right.
Happens more often than you think and I really don’t like it.
Right so change it. People are going to meet hostility with hostility. If you approach every conversation from an advsarial position you’ll get a lot of “I’m right and you’re wrong” and “lecturing” from the other side. If you had simply clarified that your vague statement was about the original article, and not the one linked in the comment you replied to, then we could’ve walked away with a positive interaction…
Yes, especially when people start lecturing me that I’m wrong when they haven’t even made an effort to understand the issue at hand. All just to prove that I’m so wrong and they’re so right.
Happens more often than you think and I really don’t like it.
Right so change it. People are going to meet hostility with hostility. If you approach every conversation from an advsarial position you’ll get a lot of “I’m right and you’re wrong” and “lecturing” from the other side. If you had simply clarified that your vague statement was about the original article, and not the one linked in the comment you replied to, then we could’ve walked away with a positive interaction…
Right, or just make an effort to read up on the conversation.