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minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilinkEnglish36•1 year agoI had a girlfriend once (briefly) who legit got mad at me for crying. Like, “stop that fucking shit” and walked out of the room mad. She also believed that a guy resting their head on the girl’s shoulder or lap or whatever made them look weak. Anyway, she’s gone and, last I knew, absolutely miserable. My wife? Amazing and completely the opposite of the above. I don’t know wtf I was thinking before.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink3•1 year agoMy nephew blames others when he has emotions. I’ll prolly end up killing him.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink1•edit-21 year agoHe’s got some serious issues with blaming other people for him having emotions. Edit: doesn’t even need a gal to blame him.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink1•1 year agoBlaming others for your actions. It’s gaslighting.
minus-squareGladiusBlinkfedilink1•1 year agoBut what does that have anything to do with the guy’s ex GF or current wife? Or anything to do with one being negligent and the other being supportive?
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink1•1 year agoIt has to do with reinforcing the idea that men should bo ashamed for crying. Bad news bears my dude.
minus-squareGladiusBlinkfedilink1•1 year agoYou should have made that connection in your first comment
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink1•1 year agoMaybe so. I thought it was more clear than it is. It happens.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink2•1 year ago I’ll prolly end up… When autocorrect gets you added to a list
I had a girlfriend once (briefly) who legit got mad at me for crying. Like, “stop that fucking shit” and walked out of the room mad.
She also believed that a guy resting their head on the girl’s shoulder or lap or whatever made them look weak.
Anyway, she’s gone and, last I knew, absolutely miserable.
My wife? Amazing and completely the opposite of the above. I don’t know wtf I was thinking before.
My nephew blames others when he has emotions. I’ll prolly end up killing him.
WTF does that have to do with what you responded to?
He’s got some serious issues with blaming other people for him having emotions.
Edit: doesn’t even need a gal to blame him.
Blaming others for your actions. It’s gaslighting.
But what does that have anything to do with the guy’s ex GF or current wife? Or anything to do with one being negligent and the other being supportive?
It has to do with reinforcing the idea that men should bo ashamed for crying. Bad news bears my dude.
You should have made that connection in your first comment
Maybe so. I thought it was more clear than it is. It happens.
When autocorrect gets you added to a list
I’m already on plenty of lists.