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minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilinkEnglish36•7 months agoI had a girlfriend once (briefly) who legit got mad at me for crying. Like, “stop that fucking shit” and walked out of the room mad. She also believed that a guy resting their head on the girl’s shoulder or lap or whatever made them look weak. Anyway, she’s gone and, last I knew, absolutely miserable. My wife? Amazing and completely the opposite of the above. I don’t know wtf I was thinking before.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink3•7 months agoMy nephew blames others when he has emotions. I’ll prolly end up killing him.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink1•7 months agoBlaming others for your actions. It’s gaslighting.
minus-squareGladiusBlinkfedilink1•7 months agoBut what does that have anything to do with the guy’s ex GF or current wife? Or anything to do with one being negligent and the other being supportive?
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink1•7 months agoIt has to do with reinforcing the idea that men should bo ashamed for crying. Bad news bears my dude.
minus-squareGladiusBlinkfedilink1•7 months agoYou should have made that connection in your first comment
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink1•7 months agoMaybe so. I thought it was more clear than it is. It happens.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink1•edit-27 months agoHe’s got some serious issues with blaming other people for him having emotions. Edit: doesn’t even need a gal to blame him.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink2•7 months ago I’ll prolly end up… When autocorrect gets you added to a list
I had a girlfriend once (briefly) who legit got mad at me for crying. Like, “stop that fucking shit” and walked out of the room mad.
She also believed that a guy resting their head on the girl’s shoulder or lap or whatever made them look weak.
Anyway, she’s gone and, last I knew, absolutely miserable.
My wife? Amazing and completely the opposite of the above. I don’t know wtf I was thinking before.
My nephew blames others when he has emotions. I’ll prolly end up killing him.
WTF does that have to do with what you responded to?
Blaming others for your actions. It’s gaslighting.
But what does that have anything to do with the guy’s ex GF or current wife? Or anything to do with one being negligent and the other being supportive?
It has to do with reinforcing the idea that men should bo ashamed for crying. Bad news bears my dude.
You should have made that connection in your first comment
Maybe so. I thought it was more clear than it is. It happens.
He’s got some serious issues with blaming other people for him having emotions.
Edit: doesn’t even need a gal to blame him.
When autocorrect gets you added to a list
I’m already on plenty of lists.