This lifestyle is something that has always intrigued me but I’ve never had a girlfriend (or wife when I was married) that shared this interest. Now I found myself single but that brings on an entirely new challenge.
From what I’ve researched being a single straight male makes it challenging to be apart of this lifestyle. I get why but my question is how do you go about getting involved? Even if it’s not directly to all the fun but just meeting other swingers and talking?
Also if you are or have been single in a swingers group how do you feel being apart of that ?
As a single man, you’re one of very many, and part of a group who is usually frowned upon, as some single men just don’t know how to behave.
Meeting swingers should not be the major issue, clubs will let you in if you dress and behave accoridngly, though couple nights will be out-of-reach for you. Then, don’t be pushy, don’t be salty, behave like a human being and remember that swingers are regular people. It might not be “all the fun”, but you’ll get an idea of the scene. Have fun!