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Dentists and lactation consultants around the country are pushing “tongue-tie releases” on new mothers struggling to breastfeed.
Tess Merrell had breastfed three babies and never expected trouble with her fourth. But after a month of struggling with her newborn, she hired Melanie Henstrom for help.
Ms. Henstrom, a lactation consultant, identified a culprit: The infant’s tongue was tethered to the bottom of her mouth. It was a common problem, she said, and could be fixed with a quick procedure at a dentist’s office.
“It was touted as this miracle cure,” said Ms. Merrell, a high school soccer coach in Boise, Idaho.
Ms. Henstrom recommended a dentist, who in December 2017 cut under the baby’s tongue with a laser. Within days, the infant, Eleanor, was refusing to eat and had become dangerously dehydrated, medical records show. She spent her first Christmas on a feeding tube.
First the dick, now the tongue. Parents are fucking awful.
Women receive an immense amount of pressure to nurse their newborns to the point where they are made to feel like they are failing as a mother if they don’t or can’t. Lactation consultants are the worst at this, many refusing to admit that sometimes it just won’t happen and the mother will need to look into alternatives.
Don’t discount the business around lactation and nursing. Some are most definitely taking advantage of the societal pressure to the mom’s for the money. Any good dentist will be honest with the mother when a procedure is truly needed or not, but it’s not always easy to tell if you’re listening to a good one or not
Parents definitely have a responsibility, but don’t place all the blame on them in this situation.
Well said. To add to this, mother’s are still going through a hurricane of hormones and exhaustion when both they and the baby are just starting to learn how to latch. I remember my wife crying saying she was a bad mother, and the baby hates her, and that she is so stupid to think she could do this. It was heartbreaking.
Same here. My wife’s milk never came in. She had 3 different lactation nurses tell her “don’t worry, it’ll happen, just keep trying”. Not once did anyone talk to her about the fact that it doesn’t happen for some women. Not once did they provide support for the increasing likelihood that it wouldn’t happen. It was just “keep trying, the milk will come”.
I don’t discount the benefits of breastfeeding, but I think our medical community needs to take a step back a little and think about this article and the other side effects of all that pressure they’re putting on mothers.
We had to get my son’s tongue done. My wife’s father literally can’t stick his tongue out, and it looked like it skipped a generation because my son’s tongue barely moved.
We are awful though. At least according to my kids when they refuse to eat dinner, even though they ate the same goddamn meal 10 days ago and loved it.
I’ve committed the same atrocity. To hear them talk, my kids may never recover.
Literally the end of the world.
In both cases, these are procedures that doctors routinely recommend to parents, as the best thing for the child. Guess what else doctors routinely recommend? Vaccination against measles.
Parenting is fucking hard.
A shitty for-profit medical establishment makes it much harder. (Especially the jackass who starting the vaccine scare to push his own vaccines. A thousand death sentences wouldn’t be enough justice for that guy.)
Blaming parents for getting it wrong doesn’t help.
Dick cutting bad. Tongue cutting often helpful.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phimosis
Yeah I’ve talked to my parents, it wasn’t “necessary” and I will hate them in this regard until the day I die because they mutilated my fucking cock for no damn reason. Many others I know feel the same.
As best I can tell, this is fully a millennial thing. Gen X and Z just don’t seem to care.
Gen x doesn’t care about anything, man.
It’s intentionally misdiagnosed to justify genetial mutilation for profit
Plus, outside of more severe cases, surgery isn’t required, and if it is, one can have it done as an adult if one chooses.