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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Routine_Window_7794 on 2023-07-07 04:25:11+00:00.
I (M18) have been sexually active with my partner (F19) for 7+ months now, and it’s great, I am really glad we took that step in our relationship. We have had multiple problems we have worked through in our sex life, (sharp pains, erection issues, etc.) and so, I am confident that her and I can work through this one too.
The past 4 times we have been intimate, I have been completely unable to finish, and then have to use my hand afterwards. I believe the reason for this is because my penis is a bit on the skinnier side. The length is good, it’s the girth that could be the problem. She also sometimes will get very wet, but even at times that she doesn’t get very wet it’ll still be a struggle to get much of any feeling in some positions. I have a theory that when I go fast, it gets wetter and harder to feel, but I have no proof of this lol. This has been happening for a while, and we’ve worked to fix it in different ways before, like trying new positions, lubricants, etc. but I just can’t seem to get much stimulation. What should we do? This has made us both very insecure and, I haven’t let her know this, but it’s killing me and I just want it to be fixed.
Compatability issues can really be the worst. I have a few different recommendations, but it’s important to remember that there’s nothing wrong with either of you.
Although methods to grow penis girth are always somewhat sketchy, jelking does have come credence. I would recommend doing some reading on it before trying anything, and always remember it shouldn’t hurt lol.
On your ladies side, it’s far easier to improve the tightest of a vagina. Women actually naturally relax when they’re truly enjoying sex btw, so take what with what you will. Anyway, kegles are a great exercise for both of you to try, inside and outside of the bedroom. There are eggs and toys to help train the pelvic floor muscles on the woman’s side, although they aren’t needed for this to work. I also recommend reading up on these as they can be difficult to get good at if you’re not already able to easily. Gonna put this bluntly, when you flex your penis, as in move it, and tighten your butthole? That’s a male kegle lol. Peak kegle is being able to hold that the entire time you’re doing it.
I’d recommend trying some together just for fun, reading some articles/guides about it together, and then trying it in practice.
Lmk how that works for you ♥
Wish you guys the best