Is that your fault? Fucking no. That’s the lie that has to end, and there’s no non-painful way to do that.
You have to let them fail, and be loud about the fact you’re doing it. There’s no good time for an intervention, it’s always going to be a crisis, and frankly it has to be one anyway. Daddy isn’t going to bail them out this time, shit just got real.
Yes, you have to live with the consequences too; they aren’t bluffing either.
Anyone you feel represents your position.
Could that result in a shitty outcome? Sure.
Is that your fault? Fucking no. That’s the lie that has to end, and there’s no non-painful way to do that.
You have to let them fail, and be loud about the fact you’re doing it. There’s no good time for an intervention, it’s always going to be a crisis, and frankly it has to be one anyway. Daddy isn’t going to bail them out this time, shit just got real.
Yes, you have to live with the consequences too; they aren’t bluffing either.
This sounds like the advice given by shitty parents.
So you don’t have a candidate to suggest? Because I don’t, either.