• @loopedcandle
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    35 months ago

    This is a lovely gif, but how is it BDSM?

    • Mistress KinkyBitchOP
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      35 months ago

      I think you’re the type who needs every wooden shape fit in its corresponding correct hole, color coded, and finally arranged by size.

      This is a pegging.

      • @loopedcandle
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        5 months ago

        Ok a couple of responses:

        1. I wasn’t trying to be a smart ass, I was legit asking for clarification.
        2. Pegging is defined https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pegging_(sexual_practice) as a cis man getting penetrated by a cis woman.
        3. Even if this was pegging, there’s nothing inherently BDSM around the act of pegging. It may be kinky, but it doesn’t have to have a dom/sub or top/bottom dynamic. It can but it doesn’t have to.

        Source: am a cis man who has been pegged in a very romantic, loving, non-BDSM fashion.

        You may call me a little anal (pun intended) about terms. I acknowledge that. IMHO getting kink terms right is really important for the community at large and how it is communicated with our partners and beyond.

        • @AnaisRimM
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          5 months ago

          Create the change you want this place to become. Why not post something more to your liking?