Yes, let’s keep growing our group here! We’ve been getting new faces/bodies in the OC communities, and I’d like to hear from them here, too :-)

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    8 months ago

    I went to a BDSM group at a bar for an hour on Friday evening (not quite a munch). Then I went home.

    • @dazedandconfusedOP
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      38 months ago

      Nice! Was it your first time? What was the group like? What did you talk about?

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        28 months ago

        It was my first time at that particular group, though I recognized one “daddy dom” (bearded stoner, not my type) from the munch I went to the previous weekend. He and his wife organized it, and folks talked about tame things because we had no privacy next to the pool tables. I had to take the last bus home just an hour in, so I missed out on whatever they ended up doing.

        • @dazedandconfusedOP
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          28 months ago

          Oh interesting it was a public setting. I guess the goal is just to socialize with light conversation and then…?

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            28 months ago

            If you know what a munch is, I would assume so. It was marked as a “Valentine’s Day” event and I would imagine some folks hooked up at the end of the evening. There was no play at the bar because the place was full of civilians. That’s how these things usually are. If you’re in a major city you have the luxury of semi-public fetish parties, but out here it’s more discreet.