A follow up from my older asklemmy post, saying goodbye to a teacher who helped me a lot through my stuff, was thinking maybe chocolate, but one of the dudes said that it’s not a very good idea, I was thinking maybe a perfume/cologne? What do you guys suggest? She is in probably in her early 20s if it helps, and I am in senior high, damn this is getting weirder and weirder, I just want to run away lol

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    310 months ago

    Speaking as a teacher here: do not buy any teacher anything, as in NOTHING.

    I would be super weirded out if a student gave me something.

    We had a student of more years than most, present the teacher’s lounge with a chocolate basket once, and everyone thought it was strange. So presenting a teacher with a personal gift would be even stranger.

    But if you insist on getting her a gift, perfume would be up there with lingerie and jewelry … WTF dude?

    what should you do? how about you decide what it is that you want to say. Like “you did so and so, that meant a lot for me because of so and so”.

    • Figure out what to say
    • make sure you don’t spend more than 30 or 45 seconds to say it.
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      310 months ago

      Idk but judging from the username, maybe this kind of culture is there in nordic countries? Idk but here students give gifts all the time on teachers day, I just don’t know what is in those boxes lol, as I never attend these kind of events, and idk if ppl give them outside of these events