• Amphobet
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    9 months ago

    This strip has always rubbed me the wrong way. If you make a statement in a public forum, don’t be surprised when the public responds. They are not entitled to your attention, but you’re not entitled to their silence. I will not be providing any sources to back up my position, but I’m sure your requests for them will be very witty.

    • @[email protected]
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      819 months ago

      If you make a statement in a public forum, don’t be surprised when the public responds

      Sure. That’s not what sealioning is, though. As the comic illustrates, sealioning is bad faith weaponizing of false politeness and feigned high mindedness, not honest inquiry.

      • @[email protected]
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        179 months ago

        Sure, but the comic both starts with a public comment that they still refused to engage with and makes it like, weirdly racist?

        It’s funny, but diffuses the message a bit.

        It does stick with you though, so it has that going for it.

          • @[email protected]
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            179 months ago

            Mr. Sealion overhears a conversation in public with clearly racist messaging and politely asks why he’s hated.

            Then he does things that depict the blatant stereotyping as correct.

            You guys can pretend it’s not on the whole a weird message if you want, it just makes you the lesser for it.

            • @[email protected]
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              299 months ago

              Or the “sealion” represents the kinds of people that engages in that behavior and has nothing to do with race.

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                    9 months ago

                    It’s actually the comic that coined the term. The creator just, for some reason, decided to use weirdly racial language to depict it, and imply the prejudice is based on evidence.

                    Which is kind of weird.

                    As is pretending it isn’t, when you could just say “yeah it’s a little problematic” and move on with your life.

              • @[email protected]
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                69 months ago

                that’s the cool part about “representing” and “racism”

                I don’t hate POC, I just hate the “urban”, “lazy”, “criminal”, etc…

                you know those KINDS of people (look, I can’t help it that the terfs who made this shit also happen to side with nazis)

                • @[email protected]
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                  59 months ago

                  Her: I don’t mind most people. But racists? I could do without racists.

                  Him: Don’t say that out loud!

                  racist: Pardon me, I couldn’t help but overhear…

                  Him: Now you’ve done it

                  […]

                  My edit kind of ruins the whole sea lion sealioning visual joke but I hope my point comes across well enough.

                  I am sure some people who troll racist would do some sealioning but they are doing it in bad faith cus. Ya know, racists.

                  I get that you can group people based on race but you can also do it based on what they believe in, which I feel the latter is what most people thought David Malki was going for.

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      9 months ago

      To add what other people have said: the sealion in the comic is following them around and being obnoxious. It even follows them to their bedroom.

      One aspect of sealioning is continually trying to “debate” someone for something they once said, even if they’re currently engaged in a completely unrelated conversation.

      • @[email protected]
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        159 months ago

        But the reality they’re referencing is someone being “in their house” in the sense of being in their tweet replies. Nobody is following you around online, you’re carrying them around in your pocket.

        • Sybil
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          239 months ago

          Nobody is following you around online

          i invite you to look at my inbox

          • @[email protected]
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            19 months ago

            What inbox? Like people are sending you angry emails? Still doesn’t really have a “following you around” vibe.

            • Sybil
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              59 months ago

              my inbox on lemmy. there are users who will follow me from thread to thread harassing me about an argument we had days ago, or will bring it up out of context if i reply to them, which happens often when i don’t pay attention to the username. some of them make posts an comments whining about how biased the mods are when their harassing comments are removed or they get banned, and some have even gone so far as to start maintaining multiple identities to continue to spread misinformation and harass me and other users.

              and the invitation to see my inbox was a bit hyperbolic. in truth, you only need to look at my comment history and the few individuals with whom i have had protracted disagreements should leap out at you.

              some people will definitely follow you around online if you rub them the wrong way.

              • @[email protected]
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                19 months ago

                That seems more like you are going to hang out in a place where those people also hang out, and are encountering them there, as opposed to them following you around.

                • Sybil
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                  49 months ago

                  that’s, obviously, not how I would characterize it, but if you need to be right you can think whatever you want.