Examples:

Yesterday I was at a health evaluation for a driver’s license. Everything went well with my physical health, but at questioning, my autism was bought up. I was accused of needing help with learning in primary school (despite of my grades, that were usually B (I know, I’m lazy)) and now I need a psychological evaluation.

When I started high school, most professors infantalized me, but later stopped after I proved myself (ok, some didn’t stop, like the slovene teacher and the sport teacher/coach).

When I meet someone new, they always think I am intelectually disabled, before proving otherwise…

Why is this happening?

Edit: It means a lot to talk to people who support me trough this (even if only on the internet). I took a psychological evaluation today. It included an iq test like form (easy, but didn’t finish the whole paper), questionairs and some cordination tests (that in my opinion I was bad at). Just waiting to get the results. Hopefully I’ll pass, but I can’t really do anything if I don’t, can just maybe try somewhere else in the EU (i think).

  • @[email protected]English
    4•9 months ago

    Bit late to this post, but whenever you’re on a bureaucratic process where declaring that you’re on the spectrum doesn’t have any specific advantage that outweights everything else, you just don’t bring it up, because you may come across idiots or even bad regulation.

    I’ve already known a couple people in my country who were denied their driver’s license because they mentioned their Asperger diagnosis. I didn’t mention it, and when I ran for the driving test, while the examiner was somewhat nervous that I wasn’t constantly trying to drive over the speed limit like everyone else, he appreciated that I was always actively looking in all directions to be extra cautious against any potential danger.