• Flying SquidM
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    193 months ago

    I just feel like an asshole when I wear one now. Or more of an asshole than usual anyway.

    • @[email protected]
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      3 months ago

      The trick is what you wear with it. Yeah, if you wear it with an edgy t-shirt, cargo pants, and a trench coat people will think you’re an asshole. If you instead wear it with, for example, a casual button down shirt, sturdy slacks, and in colder weather a light leather jacket, people will think you look like Indiana Jones. I know because that’s how I usually dress and random people compliment me on that. As long as the outfit suits the hat, people will see it in the way you mean it.

      There’s no saving the Trilby hat though, there’s no outfit that makes it work. Edit: I was wrong. Even the Trilby can be cool.

      • @[email protected]
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        73 months ago

        I wear a trilby and get compliments frequently. People tell me I look like: The Blues Brothers, Inspector Gadget, Dick Tracey, and one guy called me Inspector Clouseau.

        • @[email protected]
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          53 months ago

          Damn, you’re right. I didn’t think about the Blues Brothers, who do in fact look very cool in trilbys. I guess it just requires the right accompaniment like any hat. I apologize.

      • Flying SquidM
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        43 months ago

        You know what I like? The bowler. I’ve never had one, but I like bowler hats.

        • @[email protected]
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          53 months ago

          My brother has a bowler. It can look damn stylish with the right clothes, and downright silly with the wrong ones. I can’t wear one though, I look silly in them no matter what I wear it with.

    • @[email protected]
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      73 months ago

      Wear the fedora, don’t be an asshole, then you’ll change their perception an interaction at a time. Fuck the strangers

      • Flying SquidM
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        113 months ago

        You’re telling me not to be self-conscious in public? You’re almost 47 years too late for that one I’m afraid.

      • @Good_morning
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        13 months ago

        Exactly, I mean trends change. Who would have guessed the mullet would return, but here we are

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          43 months ago

          Groaan, my 17y old sun is currently intentionally growing a mullet.

          Can’t the trauma be enough? I already grew up in the 80s.

    • no banana OP
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      33 months ago

      I mostly wear it when it’s hot and sunny. The wide brim is very useful in the sun.