Why some men bully and hate on women who post here their own images? Specifically women who have a link in their bio.

As somebody who is not enjoying watching nor listening to ads, I understand that part, but we still get to see those beautiful/sexy photos/videos for free.

And even those women who post without any aggressive promotion, variety of content (not recycling the same photo in different sub-communities), not providing any links directly in their posts nor asking for anything and just enjoying being social, get attacked too. Why?

What has happened to live and let live? Why being so rude and disrespectful? I truly don’t get it.

I mean I have a theory, but I would hate to offend anyone, it’s just not in me to be disrespectful, so I keep it to myself for now.

That said, I also would like to acknowledge that vast majority of Lemmy NSWF members are awesome and many thanks to you all for building this fun community.

  • Kaye OPEnglish
    5•1 year ago

    Thank you, but actually quite opposite. My experience is mostly nothing but positive and fun (apart from rare instances). I have been enjoying social interactions on Lemmy and often reading comments with smile on my face.

    But I’m not blind and this kind of behaviour online is hard not to notice.

    I don’t have to agree, but I can understand why people would have less appreciation for purely advertising content (they still get content though!).

    So they want real amateurs, posting for a thrill, but good forbid any of them happen to also have a link in ther bio.

    I cannot make sense out of it.

    Lemmy can easily ban all creators, just for having a link in bio, regardless whether they post non spammy content, don’t advertise and engage socially, or not. But I wonder how many posts would be here to see? My bet is on only reposts of “borrowed” from somewhere else content.