Why some men bully and hate on women who post here their own images? Specifically women who have a link in their bio.

As somebody who is not enjoying watching nor listening to ads, I understand that part, but we still get to see those beautiful/sexy photos/videos for free.

And even those women who post without any aggressive promotion, variety of content (not recycling the same photo in different sub-communities), not providing any links directly in their posts nor asking for anything and just enjoying being social, get attacked too. Why?

What has happened to live and let live? Why being so rude and disrespectful? I truly don’t get it.

I mean I have a theory, but I would hate to offend anyone, it’s just not in me to be disrespectful, so I keep it to myself for now.

That said, I also would like to acknowledge that vast majority of Lemmy NSWF members are awesome and many thanks to you all for building this fun community.

  • @chorizomadre
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    181 year ago

    I feel like the downvote arrow on lemmynsfw posts should be removed. For me it is a huge turnoff to see people downvoting other peoples original content to hell. It is a boner killer, and makes me feel disgusted at people’s entitlement and shit filled brains. I’m not into shit filled brains, take your hate and make a community around that kink so I can block it.

    • BrainisfineIthink
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      81 year ago

      Honestly I’d be cool with that and an option by the poster to disable comments if they want. If someone wants to show their body off, let them. If it’s not a body I want to see I can scroll past it and say nothing like a normal, polite human being. If the OP wants to tolerate the comments, fine, but I don’t want anyone posting themselves and getting shamed/shit on for it.

    • Kaye
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      81 year ago

      I share you sentiments. Thank you 😘

    • @pornthrowaway191
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      61 year ago

      I feel the downvote is still important for dealing with content posted to the wrong community and spam

      • Cynthias Cheeks
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        31 year ago

        Couldn’t you just report the post vs downvote?

      • @Bendavisunlv6
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        31 year ago

        They don’t need to be displayed, however. This should be a community configuration option.

    • @FuzzyWeevil
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      1 year ago

      I know it’s something that at least instances can control, because I don’t think Beehaw has a down vote button. Maybe the admins of this instance should consider that for lemmynsfw, too

    • @Bendavisunlv6
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      21 year ago

      I 100% agree. Or at least I’d like the ability, as a mod, to see what little shits are doing this and be able to shadowban them from viewing us in their feed. Seriously, all these little festering peckerwoods downvoting ladies OC need to be piled into a wood chipper.