For me it’s foot fetish stuff. Every damned thing else is on the table but before I could make the lethal mistake of talking about it, she expressed her giga-ick about the issue. To this day I thank God I saw the metaphorical fly hit that electric fence before I walked into it.
There’s no relationship for anyone ever where you can have it all. Sorry that’s not how existence itself works.
I am currently in a relationship where I can have it all ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ it’s poly so i just go to someone else if I need something else