I said it doesnt appeal to me, I didnt say I judge it one way or the other. Being a prude doesnt come into it. For me the gender or orientation of that statement wouldnt change my view of the person making the comment.
I have a list like that. It’s important to keep track. because I want to remember things for the sake of remembering them. If I don’t write them down I will forget. also when someone asks you how many people you’ve slept with, you will have the number readily available.
What?
Also here’s my list:
As a gay man, most of my list doesn’t have names. Why would I remember their names? Some I didn’t even ask.
Whore
Good for you
Jokes on you, they lied, they’re actually a woman!
Now it’s sad and creepy!
I don’t understand why gay men get a pass for sleeping around but hetero men and especially women get slut shamed.
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Circa 2012ish
It’s a zoomer thing. Very recent phenomenon.
The kind of people who slut-shame are probably not that progressive towards gay men either
They totally are. It’s this weird neo-prudishness among young people.
Is it a pass, that comment didnt sound appealing to me regardless of who wrote it.
I’d go the opposite direction and say we should stop being so prudish, personally.
But at least you’re consistent.
I said it doesnt appeal to me, I didnt say I judge it one way or the other. Being a prude doesnt come into it. For me the gender or orientation of that statement wouldnt change my view of the person making the comment.
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Is that an evangelion reference?
I have a list like that. It’s important to keep track. because I want to remember things for the sake of remembering them. If I don’t write them down I will forget. also when someone asks you how many people you’ve slept with, you will have the number readily available.
I just keep an integer and update it each time.
Sometimes I have to decrement it. Those aren’t the best days.
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Exactly, if you don’t remember their non-unique identifier string then did it even count?
Or maybe it’s fun!
Yeah at least write their name down so you can remember them
My best friend is my tracker. If someone asks me my number, I have to check with her because I can never be sure.
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Oh wow I have the same list.
You say there is a data literacy problem underlying data security?
My previous roommate keeps a spreadsheet with notes.