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      161 month ago

      I’m in my early 40s with four kids now and that seems like way too much work lol. To be clear though, I definitely would have considered it cheating if she was with another dude. It was just with other women it wasn’t an issue at all for me.

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        121 month ago

        in that case you may have some unrealized homophobia, causing you to not view queer interactions as fully valid compared to straight interactions

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          71 month ago

          lol what? Not sure what you read but I said I had no problem with my girlfriend with other girls.

          Furthermore I’ve hung out with tons of gay people. My brother was gay (died of fentanyl). Zero issues with whatever people want to do in their bedroom. None of my business anyway.

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            91 month ago

            I think they mean some guys don’t consider 2 women having sex to be “real sex” so they don’t think it’s cheating.

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              81 month ago

              Oh, im really not that deep. I don’t spend much time worrying about what others are doing for sex or intimacy.

              Some other user said it’s probably because I can’t compare myself to a girl, unlike another man, which is probably true.

              Appreciate you explaining what they probably meant by that comment as I was extremely confused

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      111 month ago

      My thoughts exactly. My wife loves being with other women, and we both like mff relationships, so we just got a girlfriend. Solves so many problems and makes raising a kid together so much easier with an extra set of hands. Makes the various medical issues between all of us easier to deal with.