Interested in any/all perspectives, how are the sensations different or similar, do you have a preference and why, is one or the other more erotic to think about, out of 10, how would you rank the best vaginal vs the best anal?

And if you have a penis and experience penetrating both, definitely answer the same questions!

Reason I ask is I have a penis and find vaginal penetration very hot (both thinking about it and doing it lol), and I’m curious what it feels like, but the closest I’ll get to experiencing it myself is either in dreams or however similar anal penetration is. So I wanted to see what y’all thought 😊

  • Raven
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    86 months ago

    This is not easy to describe.

    Anal feels more full, which I like, but the pleasure is not as good, and the longer it goes on, the more quickly the pleasure dies off. Not to mention the preparation, the time, and so on.
    I like Anal, but really, if I got it once for every 20 times I get vaginal I am satisfied.
    DP, one in both, just amplified everything. The good and the bad.
    Positions are awkward, it takes time, but the full feeling is even better, and the pleasure of both holes is even better.
    If Oral is 10/10, Vaginal is 8/10, Anal is 5/10, and DP is 11/10. But DP with toys is nowhere near the same, in fact I don’t like it.

    My husband says Anal is so hard to get in, and then its like 1 tight ring, whereas Vaginal has stuff everywhere going on. He likes both, but prefers Vaginal. Those “everything going on” descriptions vs 1 ring, is kind of the same for me, there is just so much more being pleasured with Vaginal.

    As for you receiving Anal, the real penis feels so different, and so much better than toys, I do recommend trying the real thing at least once!

    • @s6cY5OP
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      46 months ago

      Thanks for the in depth description! The “everything going on” vs “one ring” makes a lot of sense, receiving anal I definitely agree, the primary sensation is definitely like of a ring, so that’s a really good comparison for me to go off/think about!

      And thanks for the suggestion, I’ll have to keep exploring! It’s tough cause I’m definitely much more attracted to folks with a vagina, and it’s kinda scary since it takes a bit to loosen up which is a lot easier to go at my own pace on my own. But I bet a 3-way could be a fun way to try it out, and I could loosen myself up with a toy before they go in 👀🤔

      • Raven
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        46 months ago

        Yeah, if its not your thing, then it’s not, don’t try forcing things, that never works out well.

        But a Bi MMF threesome is a great way to ease into it if your curious, I’m guilty of helping a few guys with their first times experimenting with men.
        And I’ll be honest, some it just isn’t for, most have loved it. But if your nervous, you will clench, then pain, then no fun, so like you said, you loosen up first, not just physically but mentally.

        Few drinks, play with her, get turned on, then if you want to be bottom, let him start on you while your on her, (just touching, fingers, so on). slow, go slow. It’s not a race. You will know when your ready for more, then he can taken the next step.

        Most MMF threesomes we have are about 4 hour sessions, yet 1 on 1 sex is what, 15 min, an hour max?