I get excited when I see bad reviews from women on google for places I have not tried yet, I agree, it’s a great sign. I just drove by one of my semi regular places a few days ago and saw a woman walking up to the front door, I suspect she has no idea what goes on there. One of my favorite spots has only one woman that offers extras, it’s 95% legit, every time I go to see her I get an odd look from one of the female customers in the lobby, I just smile.