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I am scared to flirt with girls.

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I am scared to flirt with girls.

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Relationship [email protected]English • 12 days ago

I don’t have any issue talking to girls when the intent is not romantic/sexual. OK I have met someone, first few conversations went alright, how do I transition to something else without being embarrassed and feeling like a dick? Like, if I want to say something technical or communicate for something else, everything is fine. Otherwise, I feel very embarrassed and feel like I will be disgusting to her if I said something… I guess it is me trying to be OK with everyone and not have more people hate me… I don’t know if I can take any more people hating me… makes me feel worthless…

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Great advice for someone already scared of talking to women… Why not give them an irrational fear of miscommunication as well huh
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  Those are the chances you take.
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    Women for the most part aren’t insane demons trying to ruin your life, if you talk and act like a normal and respectful person chances are you won’t get wrongfully accused, wtf…
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      Women for the most part aren’t insane demons …
      
      I agree. But how can you tell? When there’s a risk of arrest and criminal charges, it’s better to just steer clear.
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        That is equivalent to not driving a car because people occasionally have accidents in them. Probably not even a proper analogy because having a car accident is a lot more likely than a woman conjuring up false accusations against you out of nowhere.

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