Lots of good, general, and philosophical answers on this thread. I’ll take it a little more at face value and and tell you what physically and sexually gets me going in a woman:

Visually, I am into curvy women. Not really overweight or anything, but a woman with an hourglass figure, c cups or above and wide hips, just do it for me. What people would generally call milfy types. Being natural is important for me. I have yet to see a set of fake boobs or a heavily operated or botoxed face that do something for me. That may sound very narrow and specific but that is my ideal type. Of course it is all a spectrum and there are some wide deviations from that, where I find myself getting turned on.

Personality wise - where it comes to sex - I like a good amount of confidence. Women who know what they want and like and are not afraid to ask for it. I don’t think I could ever be happy with a submissive woman or somebody who isn’t interested in exploring or living out their sexuality.