I find the idea of strangers meeting up for sexual interactions interesting. I’m not interested in partaking in any sexual interactions, rather I would like to get a feel for the scene and perhaps have conversations with participants. Of course I would be accepting of LGBTQ interactions, but would prefer to have at least some straight/female-male interactions involved. I live in a decently-sized city. How could I go about finding some locations where these meetups occur nearby?
Your best bet would likely be FetLife. It’s mostly BDSM folks but there’s an overlap with the swinger community. Check out their communities, munchies and events. It won’t happen overnight but I’m sure you’ll find your people.