I find the idea of strangers meeting up for sexual interactions interesting. I’m not interested in partaking in any sexual interactions, rather I would like to get a feel for the scene and perhaps have conversations with participants. Of course I would be accepting of LGBTQ interactions, but would prefer to have at least some straight/female-male interactions involved. I live in a decently-sized city. How could I go about finding some locations where these meetups occur nearby?

  • MaybeALittleBitWeirdEnglish
    10•1 month ago

    I’m going to just be honest - very extremely rarely will the person on the other side of a gloryhole be a cis woman if you’re not setting up a prearranged meeting(that you’re likely to be paying for). I know you say you’re fine with same-sex or non-cis interactions, but I just want to make sure your expectations are set correctly.

    If you’re only interested in watching potential interactions you can probably check out your local adult bookstore(sex shop) and see if they have viewing booths set up in the back as they are the most likely to have booths with double-sided gloryholes.

    Aside from your local bookstore you can try checking out holehunter.com to see if there’s anything more discreet locally. There can also be private/personal gloryholes advertised on classified sites like Doublelist or cruising apps like Sniffies.

    I don’t know much about dogging, but swingers clubs may fill that more social and voyeuristic void for you as well. There’s usually at least one in any given city, but you’re unlikely to get in without a partner.