We’re an autistic couple. Both of us struggle with intense sensory stimuli, which is making oral sex difficult to give to each other.
Are their any tips on making this easier? We can just try things out and see what works
We’re an autistic couple. Both of us struggle with intense sensory stimuli, which is making oral sex difficult to give to each other.
Are their any tips on making this easier? We can just try things out and see what works
Skill and technique can give you better results and make it less demanding on the giver. I highly recommend Nina Hartley’s guide series. In your case these two.
Nina Hartley’s Guide to Better Fellatio Nina Hartley’s Guide to Better Cunnilingus
I recommend watching both together and talking about what looks appealing and what looks stressful.
Both acts are often best with a combination of hand and mouth. Trying to do it all with just the mouth can be overwhelming for even non autistic people.