When I get that line, I end the conversation. As politely as is just necessary.
I refuse to be scolded and lectured like a child, and if it’s a work setting, I would probably fire off a couple resumés that very evening.
I’m too old to demean myself in the workplace. I am of equal value as everyone else in the company, even if some make are paid more money and can assign tasks to me. That doesn’t make them higher-ups.