Of all of your interests, what is one that would be a “confession” to someone you’re in a new relationship with. When I say confession, I don’t mean a “Lets sit down and talk” thing, but something you’re hesitant to say immediately and would maybe be a little nervous about.
Mine would probably be my natural submissiveness to women. I’m switch but being submissive clicks with me mentally in a way that being dominant doesn’t. Many women I’ve known are submissive, so telling them I’m submissive to them would be something I’d be nervous about.
Depending on how you two meet it could be very hard or very easy. If you meet them in a sexual setting and they’re submissive, it’s pretty easy. If you meet them in a regular setting and they’re vanilla, it’s much more intimidating to find that out.