Right now, I often lock throughout the day. There are two things that prevent me from wearing my cage more: the cage is a little small and squishes my glans a bit, and the rub of the ring on my scrotum. I’ve exclusively worn plastic cage and might look into metal to reduce ring rub.
I’m interested in a PA-secured cage with a ring (as opposed to ringless one) because I’d really love to be able to completely prevent pullout and the ability to jerk off (when the cage is on). I’m self-locking now, but I realized that I have a big fantasy of being able to hand keys of an inescapable cage over to a future partner/keyholdler. To have no ability to pull out or self-stimulate and be completely powerless to them in this respect is hot AF for me. My cage is getting tight just thinking about it lol.
It sounds like you got a good thing with your Mistress going!
I can understand your excitement with future play possibilities, as I also went through the self-lock stage for some time before I committed to my mistress almost 3 years ago. I’ve always just worn the metal ones, as the weight itself adds an extra dimension
Message me if you want to just chat and talk more.
That sounds like fun 👍 - would love to know your progress. Why do you need such a secure method?
Sadly for me, a PA is out of the question (not my mistress’ thing). I’m happy with the TS as I no longer need to wear cages.
Right now, I often lock throughout the day. There are two things that prevent me from wearing my cage more: the cage is a little small and squishes my glans a bit, and the rub of the ring on my scrotum. I’ve exclusively worn plastic cage and might look into metal to reduce ring rub.
I’m interested in a PA-secured cage with a ring (as opposed to ringless one) because I’d really love to be able to completely prevent pullout and the ability to jerk off (when the cage is on). I’m self-locking now, but I realized that I have a big fantasy of being able to hand keys of an inescapable cage over to a future partner/keyholdler. To have no ability to pull out or self-stimulate and be completely powerless to them in this respect is hot AF for me. My cage is getting tight just thinking about it lol.
It sounds like you got a good thing with your Mistress going!
I can understand your excitement with future play possibilities, as I also went through the self-lock stage for some time before I committed to my mistress almost 3 years ago. I’ve always just worn the metal ones, as the weight itself adds an extra dimension
Message me if you want to just chat and talk more.
Thanks :)