• @[email protected]
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    9320 hours ago

    “Well I read in a book that I was there. I can’t actually remember more than a few hundred years back.”

    Ashildr from Doctor Who was brilliant.

    • kamenLady.
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      3119 hours ago

      I’m wondering now, how our little brains would adapt to living like for thousands of years. Would we really start forgetting things that are waaaay back?

      • @[email protected]
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        6819 hours ago

        I’ve already forgotten most of my childhood and I’m only around 30. So I’d assume, yes.

        • @[email protected]
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          That’s… that’s not normal.

          Thats usually trauma suppressing memories, sorry mate,

          • @[email protected]
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            2817 hours ago

            Nah, it’s just shitty memory. I have had quite the happy childhood, actually.

            I don’t find myself reminiscing a lot and in the rare cases I do, there are quite some gaps. Even in more recent times. If I really try to dig, maybe it comes back, but I assume it’s “use it or lose it”.

            • @[email protected]
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              916 hours ago

              Yeah, I have shitty memory too… Sometimes my friends talk about something we did 15-20 years ago and half the time it unlocks a memory, the other half I can’t recall at all

              • @[email protected]
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                216 hours ago

                Yeah, that’s it normal, hence why they remember and you don’t dude… you don’t think that’s not strange? That multiple friends recall events easily and you don’t…?

            • @[email protected]
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              216 hours ago

              That still ain’t normal dude. You’re supposed to be able to recall memories from any point of your life…

              • Zagorath
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                1013 hours ago

                You actually can’t. Human memory is really quite terrible. Most of your older memories are likely distorted by other people telling you about them, or even just the natural decay that occurs whenever you recall a memory.

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                  That is just factually incorrect And what people lie to themselves to make them feel better. Humans are great at recollection, why would you claim otherwise…?

                  The age 0-3 is the only time you should have zero recollection, anything else is something you should talk to neurologist or psychologist about, but sure lie to make yourself feel better I guess…?

                  • @[email protected]
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                    1111 hours ago

                    There’s a common misconception that trauma is the main cause of childhood amnesia. A logical assumption but is completely unfounded.

                    Fun quote from that article, you absolute scholar

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                    711 hours ago

                    The unreliability of memory has been known pretty well for a long time. It’s why eye witness testimony in court should not be given nearly as much weight as the average person gives it.

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                So, what’s your point? Other people might have a lot more boring childhood anecdotes to tell, but it’s not like I’m suffering in any kind. I still remember people or useful skill - the stuff I do use.

                As an added benefit of growing up quite poor, I probably just had less unique experiences I actually could recall. Like, I’ve been on three travel vacations overall. Kinda like those COVID years blurred together for most people.

          • @[email protected]
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            717 hours ago

            It wasnt specified what was meant by childhood. The further back you go the less you remember. I remember a lot more about 6-10 grade than 1-6 grade.

            • @[email protected]
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              116 hours ago

              You should still be able to recall specific events at all portions of your life, it’s abnormal not to, but you can defend it and ignore potentially life limiting issues if you want.

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                  You realize normal is somewhere in the middle…? Between remembering nothing and everything…?

                  I never said everything, and remembering nothing isn’t normal.

                  • @[email protected]
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                    52 hours ago

                    But the person didn’t say he remembered nothing. He said half the time he didn’t remember what friends talked about. Another person said they were fuzzy on their childhood.

                    You told both that wasn’t normal and suggested childhood trama. Being slightly to one side of a normal distribution curve doesn’t mean anything.

      • @[email protected]
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        1316 hours ago

        Yes and no, probably. You will remember important bits and will reconstruct/imagine other things just like you do now. Even with our short lifes not all the things you “remember” actually happened.

      • @[email protected]
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        2019 hours ago

        You would forget most everything. Even big events would become fuzzy. Do you remember what you had for lunch on this date when you were 5?