Hi all, I just created this group so we could have a safe space sex discussion and advice group similar to the /r/sex subreddit.
I figured I could get the ball rolling with this post.
How do you feel about discussing your private sex life with your friends or coworkers? Personally if a friend brings something up I will usually answer without going into too many details. I don’t really say anything that I wouldn’t say in front of my partner, but don’t mind healthy discussion or the occasional joke. I do have friends that overshare, and friends that won’t discuss their sex lives at all. I know I wouldn’t mind if my wife shared some general details but I would be extremely uncomfortable if she shared any intimate details or preferences in the bedroom. Oddly, myself and my wife both find sharing anonymous details on the internet perfectly fine.
How does the community feel about this topic?
Coworkers, generally no. I generally feel like that’s not the place for it – and I have other shit to do in general.
Friends, I don’t really mind but I am mindful of anything that would be considered personal/intimate of my partners. I’ll speak of myself freely, depending on the friend and the context.
Generally a lot of my friends are pretty open and candid sexually, I’m surrounded by a lot of like-minded people who acknowledge how normal and important sex is. I can recall a lot of times talking about kinks or experiences with friends.