• Diva (she/her)
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      1 month ago

      Usually when it’s pointed out to me that I’m reacting defensively I take a moment to think about why that is, maybe you should do the same.

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              1 month ago

              “Sucking someone’s dick” is often used as a way to refer to someone sucking up to someone else in a way that isn’t explicable unless there were a secret relationship

              why would you immediately assume you understand its usage in every case?

              so why is sucking dick a thing requiring a secret relationship?

              also it seems like a specifically gendered expression, why wouldn’t you say “eating Russian pussy” if you wanted to imply that there’s some relationship

              It just scans as homophobic, just as calling trump/elon women as an insult reads as misogynistic.