Haven’t had much action lately, and I find myself spending more time on the guy/hook-up apps. Guys are way more forward on giving compliments and swapping dirty pics, and it’s giving me a huge confidence boost.
Have a date with a girl Thursday, and riding this energy who knows what might happen! Might still hook up with a fella this weekend if I strike out with her.
Do you ever do this or feel this way? I’m upfront with every guy I chat or flirt with about my bi-ness, and conditions under which we would/wouldn’t hook up. AITA?
Can definitely relate to this, but a lot of guys are kinda too forward for me, I don’t actually want dick picks immediately lol
Kinda given up trying to find peeps and just kinda waiting and being open to possible opportunities as they arise
Yeah lol you’re right. Scruff seems nice, with public profiles being sfw. Otherwise some apps you get a bunch of cocks and no faces. (oops that’s my oc here lol)
I don’t do it explicitly for this reason, but the attention and compliments from men is definitely a nice respite from the absolute fucking headache that it is to date women.
I mean women can be delightful but yeah I feel validated. Thank you, brother.
So long as you’re being up-front about it with everyone and you’re all on the same page, I don’t see a problem with it.
I’m not a hook-up kind of guy, myself, so I don’t go that route with anyone. But I don’t see anything weird about it for someone who is.
I flirt with guys all the time. Mostly they don’t realise though.
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You can check my profile posts if you want and you’ll see I’ve done plenty of hooking up too. Some of it really passionate in the moment.