If they let you stay in the car, they’ve already decided you probably aren’t going to grab a gun from under the seat. So there’s no safety issue for them.

Dude, you aren’t making a lick of sense. Google “officer shot during traffic stop” and tell me again that keeping your window rolled down during a traffic stop is unreasonable.

crack the window as necessary, get out when ordered

two things he refused to do? What are you talking about, dude?

But they can’t have it both ways.

Per famous case law, finders v keepers.

wild logic.